Many people can aid you on the road to self-discovery. You can seek assistance from your friends, family or even professionals to help you to understand yourself better.
You should surround yourself with people who share the same values as you. This will create a reinforcing environment for meeting your goals and also help you avoid people who will bring you down with constant criticism.
Read some good books about self improvement. You could well derive some great, life-changing ideas from the right books in the field. Look for a book that is backed by very positive and very credible reviews because certain self improvement books are written terribly.
Learn to recognize which obstacles are keeping you away from your goals. Some people have a very hard time with this. You might not be able to find your weakness, but you can find the way to change them. When you take each area and take action to improve it, the path to a better future is much smoother.
Prepare for emergency expenses. It appears as though every time something unexpected happens, we charge more to our credit cards. Even if you can only save $10 per week, do so. It will come in really handy when something goes wrong. You can get your debt moving in the right direction (that is, downward) by making use of that fund instead of credit.
Unless you take care of yourself, you won’t be able to care for anyone else. Whatever point you may be at on your journey, it is important to properly care for yourself.
Therapy is a good way to work through serious issues. Resources designed for self-help may be helpful up to a point, but they do not provide the expertise or specialized attention that a patient can get from a therapist. Sometimes, the best solution comes about through the simple act of talking with a trained therapist. Books cannot have a dialog with you to discuss any questions or concerns you might have, the way a therapist or psychiatrist can.
Figuring out who you are as a person, aside from how others view you, is a great achievement. Always be honest and kind with yourself so that as your life progresses, you will enjoy the process of introspection and the knowledge of yourself that it brings.