There are many people out there that can help you to learn more about who you are. Friends and paid professionals can aid you in understanding your emotions and thought processes.
Try perusing some books on personal development. Many of the best-selling books offer page after page of useful, and possibly life-changing, ideas and insight. Many self improvement books are poorly written, so pick one that has good reviews.
A critical step of self improvement is the realization and acceptance of your insignificance. If you acknowledge you are tiny and unimportant in the world, it will cause you to realize the lack of knowledge you have. As soon as you have this idea lodged in your brain, you are going to want to understand and be able to learn different things, which leads to improving yourself.
Compose a pep talk for yourself. Write down everything you like about yourself. Keep this inspirational card with you at all times. Even better, read it aloud on video and watch the video often. Are you wondering why you should do this?
It’s a good personal guideline to treat everyone with respect even if they don’t necessarily have anything you might need from them. The way you act toward others says something about your character, not theirs.
Whatever you need, and whatever you decide to do about it, you must at least do one thing. That one thing is you must choose to be an active person and live your life, not be a spectator. Don’t be a spectator who isn’t participating in your world. Take action and live!
If you see yourself failing to reach goals, then you need to analyze the situation to figure out what the problem is. Look around online and try to find others that have had similar goals and see how they compare. You may find that you are setting the bar too high, forgetting a critical step, or not allocating enough of your resources to solving the problem.
It is important that you understand who you are. Have a good relationship with yourself; always be honest, and enjoy being you.